It's all good man. Divorce is only as ugly as people make it. We filed in mid June and judge signed off on it last Thursday. Came to our own terms and settlement without attorneys. One of us had to have one in order to file and move forward through the state/court which was her even though I asked for divorce. No hate or angst between us. The process had its moments and other so called "adults/friends/legal" involvement would've only made things worse and plenty tried to.
Fuck selfish and petty people. That's all I gotta say. Some people aren't meant to live together/be in a marriage relationship and it's that simple.