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our sex count went down 10 fold when we went from queen to king
We had a queen sized bed, but I like my space. She is one of those who has to have her leg over you or some such shit all night long. Basically I could never get a full nights sleep like that. We went and upgraded our mattress about 5 years ago to a King. She complained that the king sized bed would mean we wouldn't be as close and she didn't like that. I never said it, but I was thinking "that's the fucking point". She was not real happy I held my ground on the king sized bed, but that's what I ended up buying.
Well, fast forward about 5 years, and she has mostly stopped sleeping in the middle of the bed with her leg slung over me at this point. Which I am fine with. But, it comes with a down side - sex frequency has also slid the wrong way. There is definitely a correlation between king sized bed vs queen sized and sex life sliding the wrong way IMO.