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[LoudHogRider]

Welp fellas, I don't post much, but could use some thoughts and prayers. My wife is leaving me, we have to co-habitate until things are finalized due to finances. She isn't cheating, neither am I, but she said she's just grown apart from me. So, any advice would be appreciated. I haven't dated since 2003, so I have no fucking idea what im doing. Thankfully we aren't fighting or anything, just a lot of hurt feelings on both sides. We agreed to not trash each other in front of the kids, although they are older (15/17). Thanks for reading my mini rant. GBR and get the fucking downs

I’m genuinely sorry to hear that news. Good luck out there.

 

[Walter Sobchak]

I’m genuinely sorry to hear that news. Good luck out there.

Thanks, its definitely appreciated.

 

[HuskerGarrett]

Welp fellas, I don't post much, but could use some thoughts and prayers. My wife is leaving me, we have to co-habitate until things are finalized due to finances. She isn't cheating, neither am I, but she said she's just grown apart from me. So, any advice would be appreciated. I haven't dated since 2003, so I have no fucking idea what im doing. Thankfully we aren't fighting or anything, just a lot of hurt feelings on both sides. We agreed to not trash each other in front of the kids, although they are older (15/17). Thanks for reading my mini rant. GBR and get the fucking downs

Sorry to hear that man. Let us know if you ever need someone to vent to, someone to grab a beer with, etc

 

[Kaladin]

Welp fellas, I don't post much, but could use some thoughts and prayers. My wife is leaving me, we have to co-habitate until things are finalized due to finances. She isn't cheating, neither am I, but she said she's just grown apart from me. So, any advice would be appreciated. I haven't dated since 2003, so I have no fucking idea what im doing. Thankfully we aren't fighting or anything, just a lot of hurt feelings on both sides. We agreed to not trash each other in front of the kids, although they are older (15/17). Thanks for reading my mini rant. GBR and get the fucking downs

How old are you

Do you lift weights and exercise on a regular basis. If not you should start

I’m being serious btw, the gym saves lives

 

[Kaladin]

Welp fellas, I don't post much, but could use some thoughts and prayers. My wife is leaving me, we have to co-habitate until things are finalized due to finances. She isn't cheating, neither am I, but she said she's just grown apart from me. So, any advice would be appreciated. I haven't dated since 2003, so I have no fucking idea what im doing. Thankfully we aren't fighting or anything, just a lot of hurt feelings on both sides. We agreed to not trash each other in front of the kids, although they are older (15/17). Thanks for reading my mini rant. GBR and get the fucking downs

Also as a divorce attorney I recommend you avoid the following:
1. Drugs and alcohol and partying
2. Spending a bunch of money - keep it under control
3. New relationships - a new relationship will suck up your time and energy and lead to other issues (with your kids for example). Just give it some time

 

[Walter Sobchak]

How old are you

Do you lift weights and exercise on a regular basis. If not you should start

I’m being serious btw, the gym saves lives

41, fat as shit but have been hitting the gym the last few weeks

Also as a divorce attorney I recommend you avoid the following:
1. Drugs and alcohol and partying
2. Spending a bunch of money - keep it under control
3. New relationships - a new relationship will suck up your time and energy and lead to other issues (with your kids for example). Just give it some time

I smoke some weed after work or if im off for a few days but thats it. Had been cutting back on the booze the last few months, so thats helped. Definitely gonna save as much as possible moving forward and it was a 20 yr relationship/13 yr marriage so right now I have no interest in dating. Im just struggling to accept that its over, but its getting easier every day. Thanks for the advice man I appreciate it

 

[Dr.DrakeRamoray]

41, fat as shit but have been hitting the gym the last few weeks


I smoke some weed after work or if im off for a few days but thats it. Had been cutting back on the booze the last few months, so thats helped. Definitely gonna save as much as possible moving forward and it was a 20 yr relationship/13 yr marriage so right now I have no interest in dating. Im just struggling to accept that its over, but its getting easier every day. Thanks for the advice man I appreciate it

Were you blindsided by it? Sucks man but it will get better

 

[dom91932]

Hang in there brother. Better days will come.

 

[huskin1]

Welp fellas, I don't post much, but could use some thoughts and prayers. My wife is leaving me, we have to co-habitate until things are finalized due to finances. She isn't cheating, neither am I, but she said she's just grown apart from me. So, any advice would be appreciated. I haven't dated since 2003, so I have no fucking idea what im doing. Thankfully we aren't fighting or anything, just a lot of hurt feelings on both sides. We agreed to not trash each other in front of the kids, although they are older (15/17). Thanks for reading my mini rant. GBR and get the fucking downs

Sorry to hear, went through a similar situation about 7 years ago. Younger than u are but with two kids. Best advice I have is hit the gym as mentioned, sounds stupid but it helps tremendously. Also like u said be civil as can be especially around the kids. I was blindsided by mine but we still get along which doesn’t happen very often. Anyways remarried three years ago and expecting a daughter in June. If there was disconnect like there was with my first marriage you’ll realize it once on your own. Hard to explain but every day gets a little better. Good luck and stay strong for the kids!

 

[Walter Sobchak]

Were you blindsided by it? Sucks man but it will get better

I was when she said she couldn't do it anymore, but her reasons are valid. I focused too much on work (chef/kitchen life) to get us out of living paycheck to paycheck w/no savings and neglected her emotional needs for too long. It hurts like a motherfucker but its one day at a time

 

[kyle23]

I was when she said she couldn't do it anymore, but her reasons are valid. I focused too much on work (chef/kitchen life) to get us out of living paycheck to paycheck w/no savings and neglected her emotional needs for too long. It hurts like a motherfucker but its one day at a time

 

[2010sarenevercoming]

How old are you

Do you lift weights and exercise on a regular basis. If not you should start

I’m being serious btw, the gym saves lives

41, fat as shit but have been hitting the gym the last few weeks


I smoke some weed after work or if im off for a few days but thats it. Had been cutting back on the booze the last few months, so thats helped. Definitely gonna save as much as possible moving forward and it was a 20 yr relationship/13 yr marriage so right now I have no interest in dating. Im just struggling to accept that its over, but its getting easier every day. Thanks for the advice man I appreciate it

I second the gym, also church.

One thing you can do when it seems like there's nothing to do is work on improving your health, physically, mentally, and spiritually.

Whether it's for a possible reconciliation, preparing to do things solo, or getting yourself ready for a future relationship, it'll be helpful.

Tough situation- praying for you.

 

[Docbezoar]

41, fat as shit but have been hitting the gym the last few weeks


I smoke some weed after work or if im off for a few days but thats it. Had been cutting back on the booze the last few months, so thats helped. Definitely gonna save as much as possible moving forward and it was a 20 yr relationship/13 yr marriage so right now I have no interest in dating. Im just struggling to accept that its over, but its getting easier every day. Thanks for the advice man I appreciate it

Stop the weed. It is a dead end . Lowers ambition , lowers testosterone and hallows you out over time

 

[Jim14510]

Stop the weed. It is a dead end . Lowers ambition , lowers testosterone and hallows you out over time

 

[Kaladin]

Stop the weed. It is a dead end . Lowers ambition , lowers testosterone and hallows you out over time

And increasingly laced with fentanyl

 

[kyle23]

And increasingly laced with fentanyl

You can't be serious?

 

[LoudHogRider]

You can't be serious?

No joke. Had the son of a long-time family friend die last year from puffing on laced with fentanyl weed. I had no idea as I falsely presumed it was found mostly in cocaine, ecstasy or other chemicals. Nope.

 

[Kaladin]

You can't be serious?

Welcome to the real world

 

[HuskerGarrett]

Just drive to Colorado and get your weed from a store

 

[Dr.DrakeRamoray]

Just drive to Colorado and get your weed from a store

Shit Missouri has it now too, no excuse at this point not buy it legally at this point