Divorce Lawyers

[That SOB Van Owen]

1st time an us or them problem
2nd time VERY likely a you a problem
3rd time 100% you are the problem

Very judgmental and not true.

 

[Quint]

It's better for every single person involved to work through it, even if it's a struggle every day for the rest of your life.

All the best to you.🙏

December was 36 years for me, and I can say we had to navigate through a couple of rough spots to make that happen. It would have been much easier on several occasions to just split the sheets, but we stubbornly kept working on it.

I know that’s not the answer in all cases, but I’ll look back on the ‘Almost’s’ occasionally and just shake my head at how close I/we were to blowing it all up.

As you mentioned, all the best to the OP. Don’t know his situation and have never walked a mile in his shoes. Hope it all works out for the best.

 

[Dr.DrakeRamoray]

Very judgmental and not true.

1st divorces happen, could be a you thing, could be a her thing, could be just things done work out it happens.

2nd divorces, still could be what I said above you the person should be doing some deep self reflection on why it didn’t works.

Brother, if you get a third divorce one of two things is true, you have shitty taste in women, or it’s a you problem

 

[Dr.DrakeRamoray]

1. What if it’s their 3rd? Does it go from possible “us” to just a them?
2. What if it’s both your 2nd times is it an “us” problem?
3. What if you’re both on #3 then does it revert to an “us” problem?

1. Goes both ways, women at equal opportunity offenders
2. If you both fail second marriages, marriage may just not be for either of you, nothing wrong with that
3. I’m grabbing a box of popcorn, soap opera/bravo tv entertainment coming

 

[FLusker]

Having watched this play out twice recently, get the best lawyer you can possibly get even if it is amicable. You never know what's going to happen or change during the course of everything that goes into a divorce. Better to be overprepared so you don't walk away holding your butthole. Both divorces started as amicable "lets just do 50/50" or "I don't want to fight or drag this out" to complete money grabs because people get in their ear - lawyers, friends, family. Just my two cents.

 

[That SOB Van Owen]

1st divorces happen, could be a you thing, could be a her thing, could be just things done work out it happens.

2nd divorces, still could be what I said above you the person should be doing some deep self reflection on why it didn’t works.

Brother, if you get a third divorce one of two things is true, you have shitty taste in women, or it’s a you problem

How many divorces have you had that make you such an expert on this topic?

 

[MaxHuskers34]

It's better for every single person involved to work through it, even if it's a struggle every day for the rest of your life.

All the best to you.🙏

I disagree with this to an extent. My parents divorced when I was 10 and it was the single best decision either one of them made. Kids can tell when their parents don't like each other.

 

[Dr.DrakeRamoray]

How many divorces have you had that make you such an expert on this topic?

Happily married. Lots of friend and family that have divorced through the year

Nothing I’m saying is outlandish

 

[Pipe Line]

Happily married. Lots of friend and family that have divorced through the year

Nothing I’m saying is outlandish

I would agree with your summary. My mom is now twice divorced and onto her third relationship in my almost 33 years. Everyone in my family knows it's a her issue. Her second husband was the total opposite of my dad, and a complete pussy. My dad never re-married. Also a him thing for different reasons.

 

[Southendzonehusker]

My brother in law just went thru this. My advice.. file for temporary custody of your kids as soon as possible. If you truly want 50/50 you’ll be the one deciding that and not having to fight for it.

 

[Huskerbuck85]

I would agree with your summary. My mom is now twice divorced and onto her third relationship in my almost 33 years. Everyone in my family knows it's a her issue. Her second husband was the total opposite of my dad, and a complete pussy. My dad never re-married. Also a him thing for different reasons.

Your dad is wise. Just free plowing without someone telling him what to do and when to do it.

 

[CornFed Gregger]

I remember going through the divorce of my 1st marriage (was young and stupid and ignored all of the warning signs). There was a Cajun gal that worked for me in AP. She came into my office one day and said, "Boss, just so you know, if you want to take care of your problem and not have to go through a divorce, I know a guy that can do that for you for around $10k."

I know a guy & he has a license

 

[TampaBaySkers]

1st time an us or them problem
2nd time VERY likely a you a problem
3rd time 100% you are the problem

Maybe just attracted to crazy broads. It happens

 

[PLA]

You gonna try for 3?

Who knows? I survived addiction and two marriages, and have been a lifelong Husker fan. Maybe I haven’t been punished enough yet!

 

[Pipe Line]

Maybe just attracted to crazy broads. It happens

Sounds like being 21 again

 

[Pipe Line]

Your dad is wise. Just free plowing without someone telling him what to do and when to do it.

Been over 20 years and didn't have enough fun in my opinion