3 key memories that stick out, keep in mind this is 11 years ago.
1. First time we had sex, we were in the basement, my dad was home, I asked "pants on or pants off?" She chuckled at me and said "how do you have sex with your pants on?" context on that is my girlfriend before her when my dad was home and we had sex we'd pull our pants down just enough to make it happen to be able to hide any evidence if we happened to almost get caught. I then played that off once she chuckled at me and said nevermind and she ended up hands on the railing in my basement, ready to take it from behind, to which I had to pull out numerous times because I had never done that and was not prepared for that moment.
2. First time ever actually naked with her, at her house, mom gone for the weekend, she got on top, lights were off, had to pull out again numerous times before lasting maybe a minute because there was no warm up you could say, she was fast from the get go and she was good at it
3. Mom was home, Sunday evening, went over "to watch a movie" I knew what I was trying to do, absolutely no issue at all for her, she's 3/4 naked with her bedroom door open, on top, I remember pulling out tice maybe 10 seconds a piece each time, not much longer the 3rd attempt and it was over. I apologized for being quick and she said "no worries, it's my job"
Through those 3 weeks she basically lied about who she was as a person and the connection we made. I genuinely saw it going somewhere because of that, and she then cheated on me with her ex at her family cabin, and we rode around in her car for an hour after she got back, dumped me, and I essentially begged her to give it a chance, to which she said she was good with never seeing me again and dropped me off at my driveway. I chased her around for a few months, ended up getting closure at the bar that our particular "friend group" went to a lot, and that then started my 2 year span of booze and pussy 3-4 times a week.
No, she was not my first lol